Why is it hard to just be?


Why are we always wanting to be, why can't we just be?

This is probably a billion dollar question, which none of us really have an answer to. It was something that I teased about in my introduction blog, and is something I strongly feel about. (I will try to not keep it as a preach post!)

I am sure just like me, a lot of us would have heard just be yourself a million times, but how many of us really follow that or even try to make an effort in this world full of masks, probably only when we are alone in our rooms?? This is not something new, but the whole generation is so burdened by the idea of what's to be, with passion, pressure in this so called “busy life” we forget the beauty of minimalism at times. The beauty of a calm when you are not trying to outdo yourself or ape others lives who you think might be great (we all know how that works).

The while idea of doing more or being less is constantly fighting with your being, causing a stir of emotions, hormones going up and down and what not in that little body of ours, it is leading to restlessness, anxieties and distractedness (Is this even a word? but you get the point). Now is that really necessary you ask??

According to researches, people think they need to work in accordance to other people's footsteps for some kind of a set lifestyle in their heads. Embracing individuality and what you are a lot of them miss go even give importance. No matter if you are the odd one out, don't know something, want to dress or be in a certain way, it's all cool, because in the end only what matters is what you actually are, otherwise you are just not doing justice to yourself or rather being unfair to who you are really.

Be the person you would be if no one's watching, get that little child out of you sometimes and go with your gut, always. Believe it or not, it's the most amazing version of you. Just be and scream this is who I am! <3 - Authentically you


Just Being on Biteable.

Note: Ok I agree that was a little heavy. I promise the next one will be a little more fun and fancy. Keep at it! Only love

Also, I would like to say thank you for being patient with the gap between my blogs, I shall try to be more regular (trying to break free the procrastination levels) and that 's a promise I make to myself. Now getting straight to the point....







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